Avi: It depends on the man’s approach, and on the man. Not everyone is liable to get my cooperation.
Mars: If you are not comfortable…do what feels right…I’m not adverse to a little ‘tief wine.’
Knycky: If his approach is respectful I have no problem. I don’t appreciate an actual thief. Thou I’ve been known to steal 1 or 2. Lol.
Tanya: It depends, if its on the road and u come correct u can cause “It’s The Road!”
WomenSpeakPro: I want a definition for ‘come correct’. When does a little ‘tief wine’ become overbearing/offensive?
Tanya: To put it simply ‘not a ram-attack approach’
Mars: I think if it’s disgusting and nasty…just too sexual…not a dance but a grind…
Trini: It disgusts me which is why i prefer to avoid situations where it is prevalent.
Womenspeakpro: So, your feteing decisions are greatly influenced by your wanting to avoid ‘tief wine’? Do you find it unfair?
Trini: I do find it unfair. I don’t fête, as all encourage/accept women’s bodies as an open contact zone. It’s not for me.
Angel: I’ve never liked ppl touching me or invading my personal space. I’m a weirdo. 🙂
Trini: Nothing weird about that 🙂 It’s just something many girls are socialized to ‘get over’.
Womenspeakpro: I think lots of women feel like that, then they drink to loosen up and that’s more trouble.
Tanya: I prefer to dance with ppl I know but I still try not to be over stush about it.
Womenspeakpro: Nobody wants to be the sour girl in the party, but do women do things they don’t like just to be nice?
Trini: I think too many do. I could care less about being seen as sour, nerdy or ‘stush’.
Womenspeakpro: Its important 2 set ur own boundaries and not let the culture dictate what u should accept.
Trini: Couldn’t say it any better! 🙂
Mars: Agreed…again it’s what you feel comfortable doing…and it’s ok to say no.

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